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Are you a possessive and jealous person in your love life? You are not alone but it is a really big problem if you are. Jealousy and possessiveness is a sure fire way to destroy any relationship. The message you are giving to your partner is that you do not trust them and this is a really bad thing to say to someone.

Ask yourself a simple question to see if you may be insecure in your relationship: You are out for the night with friends and you walk in to a bar to find your partner talking to an ex. They are laughing about something. How do you react?

a)Would you drive to their house and just check that they are ill and that they stayed in?
b)Say well I hope you feel better soon and tell them you might see them tomorrow if they feel a bit better?
c)Wish them well then make plans to go out with other friends?

If your reaction is to drive to their house and check that they are ill then this is certainly showing signs of being over possessive. Your immediate thought is that of not trusting what they are saying to you is true, and that they must be doing something else, maybe seeing an ex or going out with someone else. So why are you reacting in this way? Well most insecure people have at some point in their lives had some kind of emotional trauma. This can go way back to their earliest childhood memories but something will have happened that hurt, and that caused them to distrust someone that they loved.

What you need to do is take a moment to reflect on your life. Try and take yourself back to your earliest memories of relationships and look for a time when something upset you. It may even be the first ever love or crush that you had on someone. It may appear to be something really small but it will be there, lurking in your mind and causing these insecurities to surface every time you are in a relationship and you need to resolve it as soon as you can.

A great way to explore your inner thoughts is through simple a self hypnosis technique. Take time out for yourself and work out why you are jealous and possessive in your relationships.